"There's 1001 ways to Rome", one of Indonesian famous line saying not to give up. If you try once and you fail then try again, maybe with another way. What I am trying to point out here is that there's other way, don't stuck yourself with one option. You say, fail is when you stop trying, well you see, I don't stop trying, I try to use another way. I've tried one way and it didn't work well, I stop trying at that path cause I've still got another 1000 ways to try. I'm not going to mourn over 'what I've did that didn't work well' cause life goes on, whether you like it or not.
Motivate, humor, help yourself and everybody will do the same to you.